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With a baby on the way, or perhaps just arrived, you have probably been warned about the sleepless nights in your near future. Every parent knows that sleep deprivation is just part of the package – but don't worry, the priceless, magical moments you spend with your baby in their first few weeks make it all worth it.
If you start to establish a newborn sleep schedule during the early stages of parenthood, you could save yourself a lot of stress in the long run. We've broken down newborn sleep patterns to give you suggested newborn sleep routines all the way through your baby's first year.
We'll also answer all your questions revolving around newborn sleep - like, how much sleep do they actually need? How can I make sure my baby becomes a “good sleeper” and more! Click the links below to skip to the sample newborn sleep schedule:
First, let’s get the most important question answered and out of the way:
Will I ever sleep again?
The answer is...YES! Having a newborn baby is exhausting - we know! Infant sleep hours feel erratic and unpredictable at first. But there will be a light at the end of the tunnel!
Our infant sleep schedule guide will help you decode your baby's sleep and guide you along the way to “sleep success” (A.K.A. a peaceful ☺, full-night's sleep EVERY. NIGHT.). It will take patience, but our newborn sleep schedules will help you get there.
How do I ensure a consistent newborn sleep schedule?
Overstimulation during the day can cause your baby to either sleep too little or sleep when they should be eating, due to exhaustion. Newborn babies need to be fed frequently to ensure proper development.
If your newborn baby becomes overtired (meaning they've been awake too long between naps) they will become fussy, and harder to settle for sleep. We've given age-targeted tips to help avoid overstimulation and improve your baby's sleep in the sleep schedules below. For more information on how much sleep your baby needs and how long they should be sleeping at a time (as well as when you should consider waking your baby to feed) read How Much Do Newborns Sleep?
Learning your baby's sleep cycle
While your baby has your nose or eyes, the two of you couldn't be farther apart when it comes to sleep cycle! The main reason your newborn's sleep patterns are unpredictable is because of their evolving sleep cycle.
Adults can easily pass from one sleep cycle into the next without completely waking up. Newborns, however, don't stay in deep sleep (REM sleep) for long periods at a time, so they are more susceptible to frequent wake-ups. Our post, Your Baby's Sleep Cycle, explains more in-depth about how your baby's sleep cycle is linked to their sleep patterns.
Around 3 or so months, your baby's sleep cycle will change to look a little more like yours, which is why this is the same age you'll notice more stable and predictable sleeping patterns emerge.
Unfortunately, shortly after 3 months into the 4th month, your baby also goes through many physiological changes, which may affect their sleep cycle and patterns; commonly called the 4 month sleep regression.
How much sleep does my baby need?
The short answer: A LOT. Your newborn will spend the majority of time sleeping, and the rest of their time eating - this is especially true for the first few weeks.
As a 6-week-old baby, your newborn will sleep up to 18 hours for every 24 hour period - in their first few days of being alive, they'll sleep even more!
Of course, as your baby grows they'll need less and less sleep each day. Our newborn sleep schedules break it down for you and apps can help you track naps and nighttime sleep.
Zen Sleepwear™ is gently weighted to help soothe babies to sleep, so they can start learning healthy sleep habits while getting the rest they need.
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Wondering why your baby is sleeping more than normal? We've got answers in our guide. But for now, let’s get into what you really came here for - to learn about the infant sleep schedule at various ages and stages.
Newborn sleep schedule: what to expect for your infant sleep schedule at different ages
While figuring out your infant sleep schedule sounds daunting, you don’t have to go it alone. We’re here to help. From fine-tuning your newborn sleep schedule at different ages to maintaining a consistent baby nap schedule, here’s what you need to know…
0-6 Weeks: sleep survival
Your newborn baby's sleep patterns: look irregular and erratic. This is the true “newborn” stage. Like we mentioned, your baby will be spending most of their time snoozing, only waking to eat.
From the experts“Up to 6 weeks it is typical that little ones are unable to stay up beyond the 35 to 40 minute mark. This means that they are essentially awake to get cleaned up, put on a new outfit, get a full feed, get cleaned up again, get another new outfit, and then nap again! Sometimes there isn't even time for the wardrobe change! Around 6 weeks, this awake threshold is right around 45 minutes, which still goes quickly!” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
The biggest challenge: You'll feel like you're in a constant eat-snooze-poop cycle. This is usually the most exhausting stage for parents despite so many baby sleep hours, as you'll only ever get a few hours of sleep at a time. This is why we've named this the “sleep survival” stage.
During this time, focus on making sure your baby gets all the rest, love, and care they need - that's what's most important. Avoid introducing sleep aids or associations if you can, but ultimately, just do what you need to do to make sure your baby AND YOU are getting enough rest.
Baby sleep schedule: 0-6 weeks
Your day should start around... |
7 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) |
15 to 18 hours |
Naps |
3 to 5 naps, each 15 minutes to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps |
30 minutes to 1 hour |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep |
2 to 4 hours |
Bedtime should be around... |
9:30 to 11 PM |
When to feed: Whenever baby needs it - which will be often! Their tiny stomachs can only hold so much, so expect to feed any time they wake up!
From the experts“During this phase of adjusting to life with new baby, it is most important to ensure that their feed and sleep needs are being met. The only "sleep rule" for this young age, is to ensure that baby is sleeping in a safe sleep environment without added items in their crib or bassinet, and laid flat on their back. If ever in question, remember the ABCs of safe sleep: Alone, on their Backs in an empty Crib or bassinet!" - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
Zen tip: Take time to help your newborn clear up any day/night confusion. At this age, it’s too early to have a super structured sleep schedule. While you can start implementing a simple bedtime routine, your baby is just going to sleep whenever they feel like it. Instead, teaching them the difference between day and night (that’s right - all babies need to LEARN the difference!) by keeping days bright and full of activity and nights dark, calm, and quiet, you’ll help them make an association that will help them sleep better as they grow.
From the experts“One of the best ways to clear up the day/night confusion common during weeks 0 to 12, or the 4th trimester, is to expose baby to natural light during the daytime and keep them in a dark room during the night to allow their circadian rhythm and hormone (melatonin and cortisol to name a few) levels to start to adjust to life outside the womb. I always recommend to my prenatal and newborn clients that feeding their new baby the first feed of the day occurs in a room with as much natural light as possible, rather than in a dark bedroom or nursery. This tiny trick can make a big difference in expediting how our little bundles adjust to the day and night needs.” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
2-3 Months: sleep learning
Your newborn's sleep pattern: is starting to emerge into a true pattern! She's probably able to stay awake a little longer between sleeps, and you're getting an idea of the times she starts to get sleepy. Still, your baby probably won't be awake for more than a couple hours at a time.
From the experts“Even at 3 months old, the total time that babies are able remain awake without becoming overstimulated or overtired is only 1.5 hours. Remember this is time spent awake from the end of one nap to the start of the next, and it should include a full feed! Though this is a big jump from the quick 45 minutes at 6 weeks old, it still can speed by for a lot of parents, especially if they are trying to fit in running errands or taking care of things around the house. In these cases, it can be helpful to set an alarm or timer when baby gets up from their nap to help remind parents when it is time to start the next one!” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
The Biggest Challenge: You are EXHAUSTED from those first 6 weeks of constant ups and downs. You're ready to get your baby snoozing for longer stretches - especially at night! But it's not easy, and it won't happen overnight.
During the “sleep survival” stage, you may have introduced some habits that aren't sustainable in the long run, like feeding or rocking to sleep. Starting to introduce good sleep habits at this point will help lay the foundation for healthy sleep patterns. Learn more in our guide to the 3 month sleep schedule. You should also prepare for a potential 8 week sleep regression.
From the experts“Nighttime sleep can consolidate early, especially if newborns learn the skill of connecting sleep cycles without being fed to sleep from an early age. I have worked with many families that approach a solid 6 hour stretch of sleep after bedtime by 6 weeks old.” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
Baby sleep schedule: 2-3 months
Your day should start around... |
6 to 6:30 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) |
14 to 16 hours |
Naps |
3 to 4 naps, each 30 minutes to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps |
45 minutes to 2 hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep |
3 to 6 hours |
Bedtime should be around... |
8 to 10 PM |
When to Feed: Your baby's stomach is a little bigger now, so they'll stay full for longer, but babies at this age still typically need to be fed every few hours - including throughout the night.
Zen tip: Here's when you can start implementing a baby bedtime routine. You've probably already picked up on the things that seem to soothe your baby. Stories? Baths? Swaddling? Try some different calming activities out and develop a nighttime routine that helps relax your baby and prepare them for sleep. Having a consistent routine is SO important for healthy sleep.
Overstimulation in the evening can make it difficult for your baby to settle to sleep. Try bathing, cuddling, singing, playing quiet music or reading, with a clearly defined end point when you leave the room. Begin these activities before your baby is overtired in a quiet, softly lit room. - Mayo Clinic
The Zen Swaddle makes a great addition to any bedtime routine.
It's gently weighted center and sides help soothe babies more than a traditional swaddle blanket. The weight helps to mimic your touch, so they can feel your loving embrace, even once you put them down to sleep. Additionally, the weighted baby swaddle is effective in combating Moro Reflex, which is prevalent in most babies until 5 to 6 months old.
Sweeter Sleep Story“We love our Zen Swaddle! Emma Grace sleeps like a "baby" in her sweet pink swaddle. The weighted center works just like a hand gently resting on her chest. As soon as we finished swaddling her, she was ready to sleep. It works!" - Susan R., 3/19/2018 It's never too soon to start implementing healthy sleep habits. The Zen Swaddle is a great addition to a bedtime routine and, when used consistently like with Emma Grace, will become your baby's cue to sleep. |
Add the Zen Swaddle to your bedtime routine for better sleep |
Additionally, take note of your baby’s sleepiness cues. You don’t want to let your baby get overtired. Knowing and noticing their sleepiness cues will help you put them to bed while they’re drowsy and awake (another tip for good sleep!) and avoid an overtired baby.
4-6 Months: establishing healthy sleep habits
Your newborn’s sleep patterns: might appear to be changing. The 4 to 6 month mark is a time of transition for your baby - especially when it comes to their sleep! These transitions cause sleep to look very different depending on the baby. Some babies might be down to just 2 naps per day, others will still be fighting to get their baby to sleep during naptime (read our Naptime Guide for tips). Some babies will be experiencing a sleep regression due to changes in their sleep cycle (read more about the 4 month sleep regression) while others could potentially be sleeping through the night.
Regardless of what your baby's sleep looks like from 4-6 months, know that a full night's sleep is finally within your reach! In When Do Babies Sleep Through the Night, we explain when you can expect your baby to start staying asleep right through the night based on certain developmental milestones, most of which are passed around 4-6 months of age.
The Biggest Challenge: Transitions will be your biggest challenge during this time. Whether it's a visible transition, like transitioning out of swaddling or moving from the bassinet to the crib, or a transition you might not be able to see, like the changes to their sleep cycle, know that these transitions are temporary, therefore, so are the associated challenges. Luckily, we have many resources that can guide you through these transitions:
Some parents also seek out a sleep coach or start sleep training around this age. If you'd like to learn more about sleep training and what it is, check out our Sleep Training guide. Or, learn about the typical 4 month old sleep schedule or 6 month old sleep schedule.
Baby sleep schedule: 4 to 6-month-old sleep schedule
Your day should start around... |
7 to 8 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) |
12 to 15 hours |
Naps |
Usually 3 naps, each 1 to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps |
1.5 to 2.5 hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep |
4 to 8 hours |
Bedtime should be around... |
8:30 to 9:30 PM |
Zen Tip:
Now is the time to start breaking sleep associations. A sleep association could be anything that aids your baby in falling asleep. Some sleep associations, such as swaddling or white noise, are positive. Others, like rocking or nursing to sleep, are negative because they aren't sustainable.
All babies need to learn to self-soothe at some point, and slowly breaking negative sleep associations is the first step. Once they no longer rely on any outside help to fall asleep, they'll be able to learn to fall asleep independently. If you're feeding your baby to sleep, start weaning from feedings by shortening them. If you're rocking her to sleep, rock her for shorter periods of time before putting her down.
The Zen Sack™ can be especially helpful in breaking sleep associations and overcoming transitions. The sleep sacks gently weighted center offers a similar comfort and pressure to swaddling, making it the ideal swaddle transition product. Additionally, the weighted center mimics your touch, which can help babies relax and begin learning to self-soothe.
Sweeter Sleep Story“My 3 month old daughter would not sleep in her own bed. Her dad or I would have to stay up all night, holding her, and we were exhausted. Every time we laid her down she would wake up! Once we started with the Zen Sack, immediately things started changing for us. Not only is our little girl sleeping in her own bed, she will also fall asleep on her own! Thanks Nested Bean!" - Chelsey C., 4/15/2018 |
The Zen Sack™ helps break sleep associations and eases transitions |
6-10 Months: finding sleep success
Your baby’s sleep pattern: is completely unique! During this time, there's one thing we can't stress enough: EVERY BABY IS DIFFERENT! Some babies progress faster than others - so while your baby might still only sleep 4 hour stretches at night, your friend's baby might have been sleeping through the night for a month now.
If you are just beginning to implement a consistent bedtime routine, learning your baby's sleepiness cues, and starting to break sleep associations, then it's going to take your baby a little longer to reach the sleeping through the night milestone - but that's okay! You should still see a distinct sleeping pattern at this age, and you can use that to start implementing all the Zen Tips you might have missed until now (look back at the other ages' sleep schedules to review them).
The Biggest Challenge: Sleeping Through the Night. Some parents might have gotten lucky and their baby is already sleeping through the night at this point! Other parents are still patiently waiting. If you're part of the second group, don't stress. Many babies don't sleep through the night until after 6 months old. First, make sure your baby has passed the developmental milestones necessary to start sleeping through the night.
If they have, wonderful! Now you can move on to our guide on how to help your baby sleep through the night to help overcome this challenge. Also know that according to the National Sleep Foundation, 70-80% of babies are sleeping through the night by 9 months old - so chances are a good night's sleep is just around the corner! But, first, you may have to deal with the dreaded 8 month sleep regression or 10 month sleep regression.
Baby sleep schedule: 6-10 months
Your day should start around... |
7 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) |
11 to 15 hours |
Naps |
2 or 3 naps, each 1 to 3 hours long |
Time awake between sleep |
2 or 3 hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep |
5 to 10 hours |
Bedtime should be around... |
8 to 9:30 PM |
Zen tip: Now that you’ve started breaking sleep associations, you’ll need to help teach your baby to self soothe. Here’s what you can do: Remember those sleepiness cues? Use those to make sure you are putting your baby to sleep drowsy, but awake. Putting her down while she’s still awake will help her practice falling asleep on her own. If you are still trying to wean night time feedings, give a dream feed a try, or keep cutting back on feeding time.
You can also use the Zen Sack to teach your baby to self soothe. Start by putting them down drowsy but awake in their Zen Sack. Then gently pat or rub the weighted center of the Zen Sack with your hand to help them make the association between the weight and your touch.
Let them drift off to sleep, and if they wake up and cry out for you, just pat the weighted center again to soothe them. Try to avoid picking them up, as that can sometimes just re-stimulate them.
The gentle pressure from the weighted center helps calm babies and they can use it to soothe themselves back to sleep without your help. You may even notice that your baby starts patting the weighted center themself to soothe back to sleep! Read our guides on the 6 month old sleep schedule and 8 month old sleep schedule to learn more.
Sweeter Sleep Story“My baby sleeps really well when she has her Zen Sack on. She likes to stroke the front of the sack while she falls asleep. I really like that it gives her the reassurance of a light when on her chest when I move her from lap to crib, which we all know is the most crucial part of getting the baby to sleep!" - Velda M., 3/14/2018 |
The gently weighted Zen Sack helps teach your baby to fall asleep independently |
10-12 Months: avoiding sleep setbacks
Your baby’s sleep patterns: look a bit more like an adults - except for the naps ;) Most likely, your baby is starting to sleep through the night, taking a couple naps a day and is spending much more of their time playing and exploring instead of sleeping!
The Biggest Challenge: At this stage, your biggest challenge will be any potential setbacks. Sleep regressions commonly occur at 8, 9, or 10 months old, and some babies even experience sleep regressions at 12 months old (when they’re getting ready to drop the 2nd nap). Different milestones, changes to routine or environment, and separation anxiety are some of the causes of sleep regressions or setbacks at this age.
Baby sleep schedule: 10-12 months
Your day should start around... |
6 to 7:30 AM |
Total hrs of sleep (in a 24-hr period) |
11 to 14 hours |
Naps |
1 or 2 naps, each 1 to 2 hours long |
Time awake between sleeps |
2.5 to 3.5+ hours |
Longest stretch of nighttime sleep |
7 to 12 hours |
Bedtime should be around... |
8 to 9 PM |
Zen tip: If your baby does experience a sleep setback during this time, it can be especially frustrating, not to mention, discouraging. Just when you thought you had it all figured out, they suddenly stop sleeping through the night or they hate naps all of a sudden.
From the experts“Responding with consistency and holding your baby to their personal best is a great way to overcome sleep setbacks as quickly as possible. It is important to minimize the confusion that our children experience by staying consistent in the messages we send them, in sleep and beyond!” - Brittney Stefanic, Brittney Stefanic Sleep Consulting |
Sleep regression interfering with your newborn sleep schedule at various ages
We’ve touched a bit on sleep regressions at various stages, but let’s pull the curtain back further. These two words can send shivers down the spine of any exhausted parent. But with more context, they can be overcome at every stage!
What is Sleep Regression?
In its essence, sleep regression refers to a period when a baby who's been sleeping well suddenly starts waking up more frequently, has difficulty falling asleep, or shortens nap times. It's a natural part of a baby's development but can be a curveball for unsuspecting parents.
When Does Sleep Regression Typically Occur?
While every baby is unique, there are common ages when sleep regression occurs:
- 4 Months: Often the first major regression. Your baby's sleep patterns are maturing, shifting from newborn sleep cycles to more adult-like ones. They're also becoming more aware of their surroundings, making it both an exciting and overwhelming time.
- 8-10 Months: With the onset of milestones like crawling, standing, and the development of a stronger sense of attachment, this regression revolves around physical and emotional growth.
- 12 Months: As many babies gear towards their first steps, the excitement (and frustration) of learning to walk can disrupt their sleep.
Navigating the Sleep Regression Waters: Tips and Strategies
- Stay Consistent: Babies find comfort in routines. Ensure bedtime rituals remain the same, even if they seem to momentarily not work. This consistency provides a sense of security.
- Adjust the Environment: Ensure the baby's room is conducive to sleep - dark, quiet, and cool. Consider white noise machines or blackout curtains to create a serene sleep ambiance.
- Tweak Nap Times: If your baby is fighting bedtime, they might need an adjusted nap schedule. Ensure they aren’t napping too close to bedtime.
- Engage in Calming Activities: Activities like gentle rocking, reading a soft-toned story, or humming a lullaby can signal to the baby that it's time to wind down.
- Feed If Necessary: Growth spurts can coincide with sleep regressions. Your baby might genuinely be hungry, so consider offering an additional feeding.
- Seek Support: Talk to your pediatrician or a child sleep consultant. They can offer tailored advice and reassurance.
- Practice Self-care: Remember to take care of yourself. Sleep regression can be stressful for parents. Tag-team with your partner or seek help from loved ones to take short breaks.
The Power of Sleep Associations in Your Infant's Sleep Schedule
Between deciphering baby cries meaning and navigating feeding schedules, understanding the role of sleep associations in an infant's routine can be a game-changer.
Sleep associations are cues or conditions that signal to your baby that it's time to sleep. These can be actions, items, sounds, or even sensations. Just as many adults might rely on a cup of chamomile tea or reading a book to unwind, babies too rely on certain cues to help them drift off to dreamland.
Common Sleep Associations:
- Physical Touch: This includes rocking, patting, or feeding.
- Sound: White noise machines, lullabies, or gentle shushing.
- Items: Swaddling, pacifiers, or a specific soft toy.
- Environment: Dim lights, room temperature, or a certain room fragrance.
Why Are Sleep Associations Crucial?
- Predictability: Predictable routines provide comfort. When babies can anticipate what comes next, it helps reduce anxiety and resistance to sleep.
- Independence: Positive sleep associations can guide babies to self-soothe, a skill they'll benefit from throughout their lives.
- Flexible Routine: Armed with the knowledge of what soothes your baby, you can modify routines to suit travels, illnesses, or other disruptions.
Harnessing the Power of Sleep Associations:
- Observe and Learn: Every baby is unique. Some might adore being swaddled; others may prefer a gentle rock. Spend a few days observing what naturally seems to calm and soothe your baby.
- Consistency is Key: Once you've identified a set of sleep associations that work, stick to them. This not only reinforces the sleep cue but also offers your baby a comforting routine.
- Positive vs Negative Associations: It's essential to distinguish between positive and negative sleep associations. A positive association promotes independent sleeping, like listening to white noise. In contrast, negative associations, like rocking a baby to sleep every time, may become unsustainable and lead to sleep disruptions in the long run.
- Transitioning Techniques: If you're looking to switch from a negative to a positive association, do it gradually. For instance, if your baby relies on being nursed to sleep, try shifting the feeding earlier in the routine and introducing a new cue, like a lullaby.
- Be Adaptive: As babies grow, their needs and preferences change. What works at three months might not be effective at eight. Stay observant and flexible, ready to adapt and modify.
Beyond Sleep Regressions, What Else Can Interfere With Your Newborn Sleep Schedule?
While sleep regressions often steal the limelight in discussions about interrupted baby sleep, several other factors can influence your newborn's sleep pattern.
Understanding these can empower parents to navigate the unpredictable waters of infant sleep more effectively. Let's explore some often overlooked disruptors to your little one's sleep schedule.
- Growth Spurts: During the first year, babies experience several growth spurts, which can lead to increased hunger and restlessness. These periods might mean more frequent feedings, and thus more wakeful nights.
- Teething: The process can start as early as three months for some infants. Symptoms of teething can include fussiness, increased drooling, and a strong desire to chew on objects, all of which can interfere with sleep.
- Illnesses and Discomforts: Even a mild cold, ear infection, or gas can disrupt your baby’s sleep. Their tiny bodies are sensitive, and even minor ailments can lead to increased night waking.
- Overstimulation: An environment brimming with stimuli, right before bedtime, can hinder the wind-down process. Bright lights, loud noises, or even engaging in exciting play can energize instead of relax your baby.
- Changes in Routine: Any shift, whether it's traveling, moving to a new house, or changing caregivers, can upset your baby's sleep routine.
- Developmental Milestones: Learning to roll over, crawl, or pull up can lead to "practice sessions" during sleep times. Your baby's excitement over these newfound abilities might temporarily affect sleep.
- Separation Anxiety: Typically surfacing between 6-8 months, this can result in your baby waking up more often, seeking the comfort of familiar faces.
- Sleep Environment Factors: The room's temperature, the baby's clothing, and the crib's comfort level can all play roles in sleep disruption. Even factors like laundry detergents can sometimes cause discomfort if they irritate sensitive skin.
- Inconsistent Bedtime Routine: Babies thrive on routine. If bedtime rituals and timings keep shifting, it can cause confusion and interfere with the establishment of a steady sleep rhythm.
- Hunger: While this seems obvious, sometimes as babies grow, they may need increased feedings or might be ready for solid foods, leading to nighttime waking due to hunger.
Recognizing and understanding these potential sleep disruptors can help you be proactive in addressing them in your newborn sleep schedule.
Safety Considerations in Setting up Your Newborn Sleep Schedule
No matter what age or stage your newborn sleep schedule is at, it’s important to make sure their sleeping safely. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), your baby should always be placed on their back to sleep and the sleep surface should be firm and clear of all loose objects, including bedding, blankets, toys, stuffed animals, etc.
To learn more about baby sleep safety, especially when your baby starts to roll over, read Safe Sleep: Baby Sleeping on Side or Stomach.
To learn more about the AAP’s guidelines, visit How to Keep Your Sleeping Baby Safe: AAP Policy Explained.
Getting your newborn to sleep through the night
While we walked you through the newborn baby sleep schedules above, we explained that sleeping through the night happens around 6 months or older for most babies. Most babies will start sleeping longer stretches around the 6 week mark, but for some babies, the 4 to 6 week mark is the onset of colic or disruptive sleep due to other reasons. But it won’t last forever- I promise. Stay consistent with the feeding and sleep schedule, adapt to your baby’s changes and most importantly institute that consistent bedtime routine of bathing, reading, feeding, rocking. Before you know it, your baby will be sleeping through the night.
At 3-4 months old, your baby will still wake up once or twice to be fed, but the sleep stretches in-between will increase to 4-6 hours. You’ll see their number of naps reduce during the day, but again, the stretches of sleep will be longer. Remember that trying to implement a later bedtime for your baby in the hopes that they will sleep later will not work. Your baby needs to be put down before they are overtired and will wake on their own schedule – whether that’s 4 a.m. or 7 a.m. Refer back to our newborn sleep schedules for a suggested bedtime, or check out our Age-by-Age Bedtime Chart.
In fact, don’t be surprised if around 12 to 15 weeks, you find yourself crawling out of bed at all hours of the night to go check on your little one, who (to your surprise) is sleeping soundly! This is an adjustment for you just as much as your baby. Once you get used to waking up to calm or feed your baby every few hours, it can feel really odd not to once it stops - sometimes even alarming.
From the founder
"Once I finally got our first son sleeping for those longer stretches, I still found myself waking up to go check on him and make sure he was okay. I even called our pediatrician to make sure nothing was wrong! She congratulated and assured me that it meant ‘He is getting good nutrition during daytime. Good job mom! Go get some sleep!’” - Manasi Gangan, Founder & President, Nested Bean |
Read 8 Solutions to Get Your Baby to Sleep Through the Night for additional tips on getting your baby to finally sleep all the way through the night and tips for helping baby sleep alone to help your baby become an independent sleeper.
Ultimately, these baby sleep schedules are just suggestions. Every baby is different. We can’t stress that enough. So, don’t compare your baby’s sleeping habits to another baby’s because they WILL be different. Like we said, some babies start sleeping for longer stretches right at six weeks (even earlier in some cases!) while other babies will take much longer to reach this milestone.
From the founder"Our first son slept through the night by 12 weeks while our second son was such a poor sleeper that he inspired me to create the Zen Swaddle. Every baby is completely different!" - Manasi Gangan, Founder & President, Nested Bean |
Ultimately, YOU know what’s best for your baby, and YOU know when there’s something wrong. Don’t be stressing out when at 7 weeks your baby is still sleeping for 3 or 4 hours at a time while your friend’s baby is already sleeping through the night. If your instincts are telling you something’s up, call your pediatrician. But otherwise, just keep implementing those healthy sleep habits, sticking to your routine, and using your Zen Swaddle!
Wrapping Up Our Guide to Setting an Infant Sleep Schedule
There you have it - everything a new or expecting parent needs to know about infant sleep schedule. We hope this conversation on setting up and maintaining a consistent newborn sleep schedule leaves you feeling confident and capable in your next steps.
Beyond the tips we’ve shared in this infant sleep schedule guide, our blog has additional resources to help you conquer the world of early parenthood like a pro.
Discover resources like how to swaddle with arms up, making the swaddle transition, should I swaddle my newborn at night, why swaddle baby, transitioning from sleep sack to blanket, when to stop using sleep sack, the best transition swaddle, or what to wear under sleep sack in our blog.
And, as mentioned earlier, our weighted sleepwear can help you maintain a consistent newborn sleep schedule. Check out our zipper swaddle, arms up swaddle, bamboo sleep sack, winter sleep sack, or bamboo swaddle and see firsthand what a difference they can make in setting up a consistent newborn bedtime schedule!